

Eh… putting your best foot forward doesn’t imply you’re like that all the time. It’s different.
Catfishing is lying. It’s putting forward something you aren’t ever.
And if that’s not the case, and we’ve diluted the meaning of catfishing, we need another term that means that
Tell me you’re not a parent without telling me you’re not a parent.
I WANT to live in the fantasy world you’re describing. But literally no one could have both kids and a job and be able to do what you say.
And no, I don’t remember not seeing violence on TV. I grew up in the 80s.